Adultery: Married Women Who Cheat

Why Some Women Cheat – A Guide for Men

Writing about a topic such as cheating, it’s difficult not to delve into the morality side of things. Given cheating is such a contentious issue, it’s hard to talk about this without touching on values and morals.

Adultery is almost always unacceptable, almost. Studies tell us that approximately 15% of men and women within monogamous relationships have cheated. While the main consensus squarely points the finger at men for being the worst offenders, clinical studies found that women cheat just as often.

Why men are perceived as serial cheaters

• A man having recreational sex versus a women doing the same is viewed quite differently.
• A need to sustain a mans ego is generally related to sex. He is also less likely to conceive the fact that his partner would ever cheat.
• Women are far better at hiding an affair.
• Men get caught cheating more often than women.

Men and women often have different reasons for cheating

Men are more likely to cheat for the pure act itself, and is why prostitution and strip clubs are mainly male dominated target markets. when it comes to women who cheat, they are more likely to be aroused by sex that’s connected to romance and emotional bonds.

Why women cheat

• Self-esteem: Feels unappreciated and isolated.
• Not enough sex: kids, work, sleep deprivation, life’s challenges get in the way.
• Revenge: Not necessarily because you yourself cheated, past wrongs could be the problem such as lying, neglecting her or past wrongs still unresolved.
• Lack of Intimacy: Money or material items don’t count for intimacy. Sometimes success gets in the way of romance. Sex is not a substitute for intimate gestures such as cuddling, kissing and touching.

Types of women who cheat

• She has many male friends and associates: Platonic male/female relationships are always at risk of developing into something more whether it be emotional or sexual infidelity.
• Peer pressure: Her friend cheats on her partner. Peer pressure, adults are also susceptible to it.
• Needs constant attention: If she’s not receiving enough attention at home, she may be vulnerable to a man who pours on the charm.
• Gets bored easily: Routine or a dull living environment can be the starting point for a woman to cheat on her man. Some women need constant excitement and spontaneity in order to alleviate her boredom.
• Center of attention: Some women feel the need to be the center of attention in any situation. She is vulnerable to sexual advances by men who push the right buttons.
• Sex is just a game: These types of women can easily disconnect sex from love. Sex is just a game, and the more men she sleeps with the better, even though she may well love her partner.

For some women, they follow a predictable pattern in today’s relationships

For most women, at the start of a relationship they claim they are not the type to cheat on their partner. Men must take crucial steps to understand their partners when sex is concerned.

To a small degree, there is a widespread issue concerning female infidelity. Certainly I’m not exonerating men from this equation but this article is written to assist men with ways to detect and perhaps stop married women who cheat before it tears your life apart.