6 Online Dating Mistakes to Avoid in 2017

The New Year, 2017, is here and although nothing inherently changes at midnight of 1st January apart from the numbers on clocks and calendars, there are always shifts in trends and people’s attitudes. One area that is bound to change as it always has been, is online dating.

There will basically be more people and more platforms. That is great but it will come with a few potential problems.

Here are some tips to not get caught up in the ever-flowing landscape of internet dating.

Don’t fall into the trap of serial dating

The number of people that rely on the internet for education, shopping and entertainment is growing constantly. You can also bet there will be more people on online dating sites this year since, according to statistics, the number of people turning to the web to connect with others has been growing.

This means more people to choose from but with more choice comes confusion. It becomes hard to just pick one and move on and most people end up being serial daters.

Most don’t set out to be, but if there is another person ready to try it out with you, any tiny flaw in a potential mate might seem reason enough to drop them. But we all know there is no-one perfect and so you keep on hopping from one person to the next.

Focus Your efforts on one good platform

The new year will definitely come with more dating platforms. The sea of options, while liberating, comes with confusion as to which one is the right one. Most end up joining multiple sites to get the best from all but end up not getting anything from any. It becomes tedious to do multiple good profiles, good pics, and everything that comes with having a successful dating account.

Getting connected to people is another issue. Unless you intend to spam your prospects with one robotic message, crafting customized messages to get conversations going is not easy. Trolling the online dating sea is less fruitful than focusing on one platform and milking it for all its worth.

Don’t let the dating game slow down the other departments of your life.

Earlier, you had to get to your computer, log into your dating site, and see if there were any messages. Today, things are a lot faster. You can get in touch right on the move as smartphones have become more commonplace with apps that allow instant communication.

But with all these notifications going 24/7 coupled with you browsing through the huge pool of females and males you would like to be with; and responding to and sending messages, your work or school might easily suffer. As online dating becomes faster and bigger, make sure to compartmentalise your dating, work, and family time.

No need to be embarrassed

No need to hide your online dating in 2017. 15 years ago, yes. 5 years ago, maybe. Today, no, there is absolutely no need to feel embarrassed. People are now busier than ever as life has become faster and faster. No one has the time to go out and meet people the traditional way.

Things have changed from years ago. The web is not just for people with no social skills. Statistics show there are more and more marriages resulting from online dating.

A decent photo

It is easy to get a photo. That is good. It is also easier to edit it. That is good as well until you over do it. Earlier, it used to take some skill to manipulate an image. Today, even a rock can do it. There are countless apps that let you edit photos with just a few taps of the screen. And therein lies the trap. Enhancing your photo to the point where no-one can recognize you won’t serve you. It will be misleading and will result in wasted time.

Mind your safety

There are many safety risks that have crept into the online dating word even as it has advanced the past few years. Getting around these is not difficult. First, never give sensitive information such as bank details. In the beginning, keep things slow. No need to share your address the first time you talk and when it comes time to meet, choose a public place and make sure people know you are out and where.